Seminars 2009-2010
Family Process and Natural Systems Seminars 2009-2010: Midwest Region
Post Graduate Clergy Seminar on Family Process and Natural Systems. 2009-2010
The seminar series this year focuses in depth on Rabbi Friedman's book, Failure of Nerve: Leadership in the Age of the Quick Fix. Previous writings and unpublished transcribed material will supplement the use of Friedman's work with Bowen Theory and Leadership. Participants will be invited to present cases and research areas of interest and application. Additional subjects include criteria and assistance in enlisting a coach, the current developing concepts in Bowen Theory, posturing in reciprocal relationships, and family of origin considerations.
About the Presenter
Larry Foster, along with associating colleagues, is under call to provide seminars on family process and leadership. He is an ordained pastor, family therapist, pastoral conunselor, and seminary instructor. Several other associating colleagues also participate in the seminars as presenters.
He completed extensive work under Rabbi Edwin Friedman in advanced postgraduate study of family process. He studied with Dr. Murray Bowen, the major mentor of Rabbi Friedman and early researcher in family theory. He participates in Bridgebuilders and Healthy Congregations designed by Dr. Peter Steinke.
Dr. Foster has done postgraduate training at the Ann Arbor Center for the Family, the Minnesota Institute of Family Dynamics, and the Georgetown Family Center, Washington, D.C.
He is a Clinical Member of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Fellow in the American Association of Pastoral Counselors, and Diplomate in the National Association of Sports Counselors. He served in the Army as a trained infantryman, and played seven years of professional baseball. He is a husband and father of two sons.
Practical skills and experience from 24 years as a parish pastor are brought to the seminars and presentations. This past sixteen years he has worked with and served over a thousand pastors, ministers, priests, lay leaders, and members of the helping professions.
Comments from Past Seminar Participants
This has been the place to hang out while in the ministry.
Being able to think more systemically puts "success" and progress into a new and relevant framework.
I'm getting up a whole lot better in the morning for some reason.
How people treat each other determines how things go.
Staying away from the bullets that don't have your name on them has new meaning.
The seminar helped me sustain my work on becoming a less anxious presence.
This has been eye-opening, a place to step aside from dynamics and pressures.
This stuff saved my ministry.
I think I saw a "systems moment" when my husband began a new conversation with his anxious mother.
It's been hard, slow work but things are different, good different.
Much of what I have faced in the congregation is immaturity, theirs and mine.
The impact of the systems thinking continues to help me think clearer, and see my part in the processes of life.
I continue to find deep rewards from this ongoing study, reflection, and practice.
As challenging as the concepts can be to master -- and even understand -- practicing the non-anxious presence, and other principles is, I deem, even more challenging! …… Yet, the insights have continued to be a rich background and fruitful for ministry and life.
I'm more frequently at the point of welcoming difficult people as teachers.
Not taking all the blame for what happens is a great release for me.
Biblical stories and incidents are taking on fresh humanity and correspondence.
When I worry about being an adequate parent for my kids this frame of reference opens up the grace of a wider lens and less blame.
Recommended Over the Years by
Rev. Brenda Alexander, PresbyterianDr. Howard Anderson, Episcopal
Rev. Kent Anderson, Covenant
Rev. Wally Arnold, ELCA
Rev. Karna Baseman-Stark, ELCA
Rev. Bob Berg, Bishop, retired, ELCA
Rev. Allan Bjomberg, Bishop, ELCA
Rabbi Stephen Booth
Dr. Michael Bozym, Roman Catholic
Rev. Colon Brown, Methodist
Rev. Kathryn Davelaar, RCA
Sr. Tarianne DeYonker, OP, Roman Catholic
Alden Drew, Business CEO
Rev. Leland Eilert, ELCA
Rev. Dennis Fitzpatrick, LC-MS
Rev. Bruce Fredrickson, LC-MS
Rev. Lamarr V. Gibson, Methodist
Dr. Gary Hansen, Bishop, retired, ELCA
Dr. Randall Hansen, Methodist
Dr. Sarah Henrich, Faculty, Luther Seminary
Dr. Robert Hunter, Presbyterian
Rev. Thomas Joyce, Episcopal
Dr. Jerome E. Kwako, M.D. Dr. Terry Lapinsky, CRC
The Rt. Rev. Edwin M. Leidel, Bishop, Episcopal
Rt. Rev. John P. Lipscomb, Bishop, retired, Episcopal
The Very Rev. Fred Mann, Episcopal
Dr. Larry Matthews, Baptist, Friedman Faculty
Rev. Robert McKay, Episcopal
Rev. Marcus J. Miller, Pres. Southern Seminary, ELCA
Dr. Randy Nelson, Faculty, Luther Seminary
Rev. Lynn Pier-Fitzgerald, DS, Methodist
Dr. Blaine Rader, Ph.D., Methodist
Dr. Stan Rock, Ed.D. Professor, WTS, RCA
Rev. John Spilman, CPE Sup., LC-MS
Dr. Peter Steinke, Author, LC-MS
Rev. E. Peter Strommen, Bishop, ELCA
Rev. Jim Tonneson, ELCA, CPE Sup.
Rev. Cindy Veldheer DeYoung, RCA
Carol Wagner, Elder, RCA
Rev. Gordon Wiersma, RCA
Rev. Phyllis Wilcox, Methodist
Kathy Wiseman, Georgetown Faculty
Dr. Philip Young, retired, Presbyterian